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Many people who participated in #biraciallookslike brought up similar experiences.

[Read: How to text flirt with a friend] What are mixed signals? “Those are things you get called a lot.” Today, she uses dating apps like Tinder and Soul Swipe, but the experiences are always mired in suspicion that men are seeing her as a mixed woman, some kind of exotic — and not just a woman.Nobody walks away from online dating without a negative story or two, whether it's having to fend off the guy who won't stop asking for nude pics or that couple that thinks just because you're bisexual, you're down for a threesome. As a biracial person and the creator of the #biraciallookslike hashtag, I've experienced this firsthand.Flicking through the pages of Essence Magazines, April 2010 Issue, one thing happened to catch my eye. Now it wasn't I who read it but my older brother, Ryan, who happens to be mixed.Upon finishing the article, one thing my brother said was, "She's biased." Jill wants the equality that African Americans have searched for for over 400 years for that same respect and equatability as that of caucasians, yet she feels betrayed and uneasy knowing that black men are still dating white women.The 21-year-old is regularly sent unpleasant messages, with one charmer called David once telling her: ‘I’d love to have sex with a black girl, I’ve never been with one before. ’ Unsurprisingly Ms Brinkhurst-Cuff didn’t think it would work out with the 25-year-old and unmatched him straight away.

But the strange messages didn’t stop, with the writer, who is black Caribbean and white, admitting it had hampered her experience.

Ms Brinkhurst-Cuff said she didn’t want to be fetishized for her race, which was mostly being done by white men.

‘I don’t want to fulfill anyone’s racial fantasy of getting with a big-assed black girl or feel like I should thank them because, you know, they actually find black women attractive,’ she added.

But the world of online dating can be difficult in a very specific way for those who identify as multiracial. Whether it's some drunk guy saying, "You're so hot, I don't care that you're Hispanic" (I'm not Hispanic), or someone finding out my dad is from India and then only wanting to talk about curry and Bollywood, my experiences as a multiracial woman have been marked by people just not knowing how to bring up race without being incredibly awkward.

(Sorry.) Thanks to a combination of unchecked biases and overt fetishizing, the dating world is a minefield for mixed race people.

When OKCupid crunched the numbers again in 2014, not much had changed: Though more people said they were open to interracial dating, the numbers showed racial biases were still in play.